Friday, January 9, 2009

oooooo....

ohhhhhh...arini rasenye terlebey mkn....sangat la kenyang...burPPppppppp...sgt x ladY like.....umhhhhhh....rasenye ptg nie wajib jog- joggy...used up all d excess glucose in blOOdd..cHoiii..

td baru bace cleo (courtesy of cik dayat)....terbace 1 article...rasenye nk dedicate to my fren...who been through a lot more misery than i do...giler respect die... sgt cool orgnye...sgt penyabar...mempunyai perseverance yg tinggi dlm mengejar cita2nye...sgt respect kawan2 dan org2 disekitarnye..

so this article is dedicated to uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu....(it is a quotation dat make u think, its oK to do wutever u r doing now, cuz at d end its all about u...not about people who crushed u)

"Refusing to forgive d people who hurt us alwiz gives us a curios, morbid satisfaction. We assume they need our forgiveness to move on with their lives, when in fact, they dont. We can live without being forgiven. But if we cant forgive, WE DIE"
"Forgiveness is all about working through d unfinished business, letting go of d pain n moving on for ur sake. U forgive, so dat u can finally get rid of d excess emotional baggage dat has been weighing u down n holding u back; so u can be free to do n be wutever u decide, instead of stumbling along according to d script Painful Past Experiences wrote for u"

dont wait for an apology to forgive...cuz it is cheap...sumtimes saying sorry is just a way of being polite.... to show people dat our parent taught us well..."say sorry n u shed ur guilt, but d acts rarely make any difference to d person u hv wronged"...as d apology wont take d misery away... but d forgiveness will be granted only when d person u hv wronged is ready to forgive..
it is a matter of time...it is not easy to forgive but it is definitely impossible to forget...
so, in a meanwhile...let just be forgiving for once
(since forgetting is an attempt of uselessNess)...not for anybody sake....but for ur very own sake..cuz u all u hv :)


to love yourself,
is to love others,
with no love for one's self,
how can there be love for anyone else?

LOVING YOURSELF by Mary E.Coe

2 comments:

peeps said...

some words 2 be shared..

"...guilt never goes on its own. it brings its friends doubts n insecurity...n the guilt will work itself out as the time goes by..."

p/s:w'pon xde kaitan nak bg jugak:)

dollY baKir said...

its all about d time...i hv my whole life to work it out =D
(ps: xpe..saye x kisahhh..hehehe)